I understand what you are saying. It is a catch 22 as I am trying to support her new found passion and upcoming career in Yoga by watching the kids while she goes to class in the evening. However, I don't always trust she goes there or sometimes she will go shopping after the fact...of course she doesn't spring that on me until after she is already out of the house. I get accused of not supporting her if I don't allow freedom to go to class, but what limitations do you suggest?



Originally Posted By: sandi2
You sound like a very nice man who tries to show his love to his W by giving her support. What you may not see is that the way you take on your share, plus her share, of home & family responsibilities could be enabling her to continue down this road.