Real piecing is when both partners are putting both feet back into the marriage or into a new better one.
You must come up with tools to make sure things are different and better. Or they will revert.
In fact, I'm mostly referring to better conflict resolution.
Oh - 25 I am so sorry to hear this - although I knew that you had moved cross country - and since you started posting again I suspected something like this was happening.
So I read a lot of the above book but I will have to re-read it again to follow it all.
Do you think your husband ever finished his MLC and really recovered or has he just reverted to this strange behavior all over again? Do you really think that conflict resolution would have kept this from happening?
I must admit some of the other reconciled people I know have had similar things happen. Having met J3B last fall, I can tell you he was not really fully reconciled either. His wife still had issues for sure.
Well I send my best and hope you can keep moving forward in whats best for YOU!
