I have been very guilty of not being active enough in pursuing things in my life. It was one of the things that my wife complained about. She said I just let life happen to me. And my dad also tells me that I do that. But she might have never met me if I had been a more active player, because I might have already had a girl when she came along, or maybe my wife would have just waited for me to be single, before she would have contacted me. That's also possible.
M: 33, W: 30 @BD M 7, T 10 BD: Early Dec W left: Late Dec W got stuff: Late Jan W sent S papers: Mid Feb OM cnfrmd: Late Feb
Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.