Separated In Process of Divorce (Anniversary)

[sellout]

Thanks all. My plan of action now is...

1. Continue with the divorce. We haven't even had our first court date so at a minimum we are 4-5 months out on finalization.

2. Continue (and do a better job of) Detaching.

3. Continue to GAL

4. Prepare myself as though I am 100% done and I am moving on.

5. If/when she ever tries this again and want to work it out, my plan is as follows:

A. Listen to her reasons
B. Tell her that I will think about it
C. Advise her that I MUST see changes in her actions for a extended period of time.
D. If/when I see her changes and they are real and sincere then make a decision if we give it another try.

Thoughts?