So what an absolute fool i am. After she cried her eyes out to me, begged and was 110% wanting to work on marriage...she went right back to OM yesterday. I am sick to my stomach and have 0% hope of anything EVER working again. Just a final dagger in the heart. She is confused, deranged and not my wife anymore. Sick!!
Okay, so there is nothing really new here.
Just back to the same routine.
Welcome to the bounce..
And it hurts, I get that.
What are your choices now ??
What do you wanna see for you ??
A WAW will bounce between decisions. Look for her to justify this later.
Something like, it was just a goodbye, or some crazy schidt...
Be on the lookout for some extreme bouts of anger from her too. She is hurting inside while she struggles with this decision..
and hurt people, hurt people...
Often those closest to them feel the wrath.
Chin up buddy, dust yourself off and get back on the horse...
This won't destroy you , unless you allow that to happen...
