I want my wife and my marriage back. I do not know how to go about this or what I should be doing to move in that direction.
I can't tell you to do this or to do that. There is no magic pill, or bullet to make this all better.
I can tell you that detaching, dropping the rope, GAL, and living your life, are the best options toward that happening.
I know that ringing a bell that can't be un-rung ( filing for a divorce when you don't want one), typically isn't your best decision.
I know that your actions aren't matching your words.
Originally Posted By: codeman
She said this weekend that she will never be my wife again and we will not be friends. After i told her that I wasn't interested in being her friend as long as she is with another man. She cried and got mad and then calmed down then told me bye and hugged me.
Yea, and she also told you at one time, that she was gonna love you forever....
So she IS capable of changing her mind....
????
That also is an example of your actions and words....
You tell her that you are not interested in being her friend if she is with another guy...
And then you hug her bye...
Which is it Code ??
Cause you are confusing me, and I'm just an outsider reading along...
