At the moment I think in newbies you get a great deal of support and you build your tribe around you. Its great support and an amazing opportunity to learn and to give.
Unique.
Stick with it as there are vets who can post to you to help you too. It's very early days to FB.
Oh, we weren't going to leave! Just that we've had some unique experiences with stepfamilies and exwives who want to cause problems, so we wanted to chat about that off the site (it's not wholly applicable.)
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what the ex proposes on fins seems awfully one sided to me. Your L will no doubt have sage advice on it.
Yes. He's incapable of caring about anyone but himself right now. It's difficult to witness because he was always so caring.
And it's quite hurtful to know that he's going to try to make it ugly in order to justify leaving.
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Have a good old wallow in your misery. Eat chocolate and buckets of ice cream or whatever is your desire. Play sad movies and songs. It all helps. You deserve it and it's all part of recovery.
Yes, a breakdown is in order. Tears welling up as we speak.
