Separated In Process of Divorce (Anniversary)

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Wow! You are on to something here. Keep up the mystery and watch what happens to her. It amazes me that they can have a full-blown OM and the mere sight of some selfie on your phone sends her through the roof. Human beings are really all designed the same way. We want what we think we can't have.

I posted the statement above to you a few days ago. It is amazing how some of them turn around so quickly when they think they could actually lose you to someone else or that you somehow have more "value" to them now. I know it is not the DB way to use a little bit of jealously to shake our WAS's up, but I am seeing it work time and time again.

If you do start to piece this together, you need to be prepared for her to start grilling you about this other woman that she saw on your phone. Just be calm about it and tell her everything she wants to know. But just understand that she will make it a big deal and try to make it seem like you had OW as well. They do this to try and relieve some of their guilt. It is very normal, so just realize this and stay calm with her and try not to "tit for tat" with her.

Good luck!