At the moment I think in newbies you get a great deal of support and you build your tribe around you. Its great support and an amazing opportunity to learn and to give.
Unique.
Stick with it as there are vets who can post to you to help you too. It's very early days to FB.
This seems to be about fins.
The house can be sold. If you paid bills and loans when he lived in the property then the likelihood is there is a gift whilst you were together. Since you moved out I think you can repudiate and notify that you consider part a debt which requires reimbursement.
What the ex proposes on fins seems awfully one sided to me. Your L will no doubt have sage advice on it.
Have a good old wallow in your misery. Eat chocolate and buckets of ice cream or whatever is your desire. Play sad movies and songs. It all helps. You deserve it and it's all part of recovery.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
