So Confused and Conflicted (6)

[Vanilla]

Wsh

Nothing, nothing you did caused her to do anything. She made her own choices.

The sense is in your handle, honey even if you had known it likely would have made no difference at all.

None of this is your fault, your WW chose to go wayward, chose to gaslight and mislead you.

There is nothing wrong with you, nothing at all. There are lots of lovely sensitive shy men on this board who love their W and family.

Men who have learned to love and grow into amazing husbands boyfriends and fathers. I am going to recommend to you that you read about some of them, in Surviving is an amazing father of 5 adopted boys whose mother went truly wayward and still is. J5k, read his story and there is a man who blamed himself for every little thing.

There are special men too like Fogg and Old Dog. Gentle kind and very loving men. I count you as one who is deeply hurt and afraid of being alone. That's ok. You might want to find SH story too.

So I am going to tell you over and over, who you are and how you feel is completely totally and utterly ok.

And you will get through this.

Truly

V