Wsh....this is in your sig: Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.

Given what you currently know, please take the steps to help you grow. You have history with your W where you can look back to identify areas that can be improved for YOU. You have the resources here to explore other relationship skills and learn from experiences from others.

So where you might have had reasons for not being prepared with coming into your M/R, that no longer is a crutch to lean on. We all have to begin our journey somewhere. Let your pain yield tremendous growth. Be the author of your book. The captain of your ship.

The only way to the other side of this he!!, is through it. There are no shortcuts.

Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa