What do you think I should be doing at this point? My current plan is to just let things go for a few more months and remain friendly and see if anything new develops. Is this a bad idea? It this a nuclear grade case of cake eating? I know I can do this for a while longer but I don't see myself supporting her for years knowing the whole time that she will walk out at the end. It's all pretty exasperating.
Have you read DR?
What kinds of 'positive change buttons' can you push?