Sellout - I've been in this situation twice and I have some recommendations.

1. If you let her back in too easily, she will leave again.

2. She needs to mourn the loss of her relationship with OM and not use you as a band-aid. Hell, maybe he dumped her.

3. You want to make sure you aren't too responsive (just like the DR book says). Don't rush to answer her texts and calls.

4. Watch her actions and not her words. She can blow a ton of smoke up your a$$ because she knows you want the M to work.

5. Continue doing what you have been doing. Keep up with GAL and your friends and family.

Ive got my fingers crossed for you.