That's exactly what happened. There was this flurry of things, her wanting to spend time together, talking about comign to the house this week so we can work on something with D, having dinner together, her talking about how excited she was, etc. She says it was all about me spending time with D (don't know how I'm supposed to interpret "I'm so excited" as anything other, but whatever).
I'm bummed out, but not as bad as before. This is just death throes I guess. When I've been with her this weekend, it was like a stranger. A stranger I didn't even like very much, much less love. I get the whole ILYBNILWY now, because that's how I feel. Wondering why I bothered to fight for this person.
OM #2 (Florida guy) is still in the picture. Though she denies it, she acts like his girlfriend (I see her log on to xbox 15 minutes before he gets home from work, then the two of them spend the next few hours together in party, then they log out around the same time).
Was trying to figure out if she was WW or WAW. Personality has elements of both. Don't think it matters much anymore.
Not shutting the door completely. I said I would give this a couple of months (if lawyer can draft something that protects me enough to make me feel safe and she signs/agrees with it) and I will, but I'm pretty sure there's no point in doing so.