I just want her to understand that she is responsible for her own actions, stop blaming me and sort herself out.
Why?
Originally Posted By: RBG80
But she is a fully grown woman who needs to take responsibility for her own decisions and actions.
Again, why?
To me, this sounds like you are still hoping/wanting an apology or acknowledgment of her 'wronging' you. She IS a fully grown woman. Which means that it isnt your responsibility to save or fix her.
I agree with your friends - leave her alone. Youre in a new relationship now.
