no worries. overall you sound great. i know the ex stuff is a drag. remember it's not forever. this is a phase in your life, it doesn't have to DEFINE your life. But Pax, you already know that! {{{{{xoxoxoxo}}}}}

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver