The thing is Sandi, it's not really that I want to help her, I just want her to understand that she is responsible for her own actions, stop blaming me and sort herself out. If she's happy, then my S will be happy.
The "leave her" comment maybe should have read "leave her alone". ie, let her deal with her own issues and offer no support to her problems. This goes against how I have been raised - if someone needs help and you can help, then you should.... But she is a fully grown woman who needs to take responsibility for her own decisions and actions.
M - 36 / W - 32 S - 3 Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016 Moved out - 4th Sept 2016
