Dealing with Devastation

[giftd]

So I went to Vermont to visit a friend, we exchanged some playful texts. Called her tonight to ask a question about the animals. We talked about my trip and joked for like 10 minutes before she got a call from a friend she hadn't talked to in a while. After an hour she called back because I said to if she had a chance.

Her tone changed significantly from the first call. I believe it was the first time she had told this friend she had moved out. I asked if she was ok and passed it off as something else. She said she is working 7 days a week coming up for the next 3 weeks at least, 12 hours a day. I told her I was sorry to hear that and she said "it's only temporary". I replied that I know, she told me she would be covering the last time we talked. This bothered her, trigger from something in the past. I apologized and we talked about the animals some. Conversation was short this time, only 5 minutes as she "had to go" to bring laundry up the stairs.

I'm frustrated because she isn't going to counseling anymore and is now working 80+ hours a week again. Time is my friend I suppose, she has to realize that her work isn't making her happy, just want to help her