I agree that you had to get out of there. For your own mental health. I think it tells him you mean business, and sets very appropriate boundaries. Your leaving shows that you have respect for yourself and I feel makes you more valued. You can look back and be very proud because you certainly were no one's door mat. I wish more of us here were able to do that. You were very fair and reasonable.
He obviously had and has a lot of issues. Many of us do. But you cant really fix those for him. It could have been a depression he was going into, but perhaps he was upset with you and just did not communicate? Which is what a lot of walkaways tend to do.
What are some of your issues that you need to fix? What do you think are some of the negative things he would say about you if we were to ask him? That is pretty much all you can really focus on right now.
