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Its hard to hear from someone who you loved for 18 years that you're dead to them. Knowing that they have pure hatred for you and that things (co-parenting) will now be even more difficult. I just don't know what to do or whats best....


If that's her feelings, then how could you help her?

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I've been told by so many to just leave her and I agree that she probably needs some space. I just wish that we could have an amicable R for the sake of our S
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Wait............what do you mean "leave her"?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!