I am pleased to see OFC being recommended, you may need to join her up and pay the fee as one off and send her the link. It may save you a lot of pain in the fullness of time.
I am very pleased to read about your anger, to me this marks the beginning of healing. From day one on the board I read the words of a remarkable man and father. A quite extraordinary gifted and loving person, in my eyes you are getting stronger.
Bringing up your sons is a full time job on its own without work and a difficult ex. I too am disappointed that WW has made little effort with her sons, although I confess with no surprise.
Much hugs and rainbows to you and the boys
Know I hold you in high esteem, for your grit and determination.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW