Hi J5K..

Your feelings of anger/discuss are valid.. i have been there.. i have raised my 4 children on my own for the past 9 years. Those feelings you have, i still carry around. She is oblivious to the dammage she is causing. In her mind, every action she takes is justified with lies and excuses.. keep your focus on you and the welfair of your children. Be the dream team. So many people dream to have what she had.. it is her lost, not yours.. you and the boys are the FAMILY!!! The most important foundation of a good life..