If a SAHM removes herself from the marital home, I do not support the idea of the LBH financing her lifestyle. Why should he pay for her to live apart from him while she enjoys not having the responsibility of working to provide for herself?
I agree. I am not paying for her to get her own place. I want her to get a job, her own bank account and manage her own budget, etc. Step one though is getting her out the door.
Originally Posted By: sandi2
So, you confronted her about the PA. Did she say it would stop or that she did not want a divorce? Did she say anything, other than blaming you?
When confronted about the A she would not stop it but said she wanted a divorce but more space in the meantime. I interpret that to mean she wants her cake eating and is not ready to leave her children or comforts. Like I said the next step is a conversation of me telling her I am moving on from her and she needs to move out and get her own place.
Originally Posted By: sandi2
How old are your children?
11, 17, 19, 23
Originally Posted By: sandi2
Can you give us more marital history? Have either of you engaged in inappropriate behavior in the past?
I have not but she had one PA over 10 years ago that she snapped right out of. Also, she was in an EA that I do not think turned PA but I could easily be wrong.
Me46 W46 M25yrs T29yrs 4 children ILYBNILWY 1/30/17 PA confronted 3/6/17 Separated same house
