Touch and goes can go on and on. It's their way of reminding us that they are out there and we are a connection for them. Yes, even when they think we are the enemy, they have to think that we are right where they left us. Some will continue this throughout the crisis and others hit and miss.
No one can explain to you what your h wants. We can "assume" all day long, but the assumptions are just that. If we could mind read and know what they want...we all would be rich using those skills. Let's face it, he doesn't know what he wants and we sure can't rationalize his thoughts and behavior.
The best thing to do is continue as you have been and leave him in the mlc mode.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
