WW won't separate

[resolut]

Well my wife finally left the MBR on her own last night. I guess staying strong is working. She tried to give me so much guilt but I just let it bounce off.

I reminded her that I'm the one still in the marriage and she has left. My next 180 is to tell her I'm ready to move on her from her and work on a timeline for separation with her moving out.

I still feel like someone has punched me in the gut and I have no appetite but I know I am moving things in the right direction now instead of being weak like I was in my grief of the situation and betrayal.