So... wow. I can't even begin to talk about how weird today ended up.
W went to Dr appt. While she was gone, D wanted to play outside. I noticed how windy it was, so I got her kite out. When W came back from Dr, the two of us were out there running around and flying the thing. W got out of car and was smoking, and I told her to put the thing out and get over here and fly the darn kite. She said no, but a few minutes later came over anyway, and I gave her the string. So W, D, and I are out there flying the kite. After about 10 minutes, D gets bored and wanders off to play in the yard, and W and I end up flying that kite together for the better part of an hour.
Kaizen, I just want to thank you for the advice you gave me the other day, about not rushing divorce. After we had the above, I felt comfortable enough to talk to her about an agreement on our daughter instead of divorce (still going to lawyer on Thursday but not going to file anything at this time). She seems to be on board with that, and we're going to pull back and give this some time.
