Yup ... that FB will only hurt you more as it then becomes more 'real' in a way.
My MLCr for years would delete me and re add me .... the delete portions would be punishment, when I made her mad .. actually became a joke for some time with our mutual friends. So when she nuked me prior to BD it was just another day in Cali's life.
I did not suspect nor even know about OM till a few months after. I recall her posting something about Driving up north and OM posted on her page "Safe Travels" I was livid .. the nerve of that guy to openly confess the affair like that ... least that's how I read it and assumed everyone knew at that point ... that's how nuts I was.
She blocked me years ago .... I returned the block and I do not even feel the least bit curious TBH but it takes time to get there, takes time to learn if you continue to touch that oven its only your fingers getting burned to a crisp not theirs ... you will learn in time to stop handing over power like that to the OM/MLCr
