Any other suggestions on what I can say when she approaches me? I know she will at some point and I want to be prepared with the type of dialog I should take with her.
I'm not much of a daily life advice person here.
More of a, IF you understand the philosophy, then you will make the right decision at that time, person...
Teach a man to fish theory...
So with that, I would say that you have to be you. No games, no BS, just who you are...
You say that you are different, and other people are noticing. So if that is the case, then you be that guy...
Simply put...Aloof, yet available for casual conversation.
Like has been said above, you shouldn't be her emotional support right now, she has another dude for that.
Leave her to it.
At this point CM, I would love to hear some goals. Decide where exactly you would like to see this go.
You talk of willing, and perhaps wanting a reconciliation, yet you talk of a hearing on 5/08.
So which is it ??
You have almost half ? of your life dedicated to being with, or thinking about this Woman...
You have a history of another guy not being a dealbreaker for you...
Are you really ready to throw in the towel this quickly ???
