Tonight while away with his OW, my H just texted me, "pls say goodnight to our son and tell him I love him". I SO badly want to reply that he can go "have sex" with himself. Seriously?!? While, he is off rendezvousing; with ow H texts me that?!? I'm so disgusted!
Hi love1st,
No need to respond to that text.
Originally Posted By: love1st
Can't sleep. For anyone not knowing, H moved out 2.5 months ago. There is OW. I found out H is taking OW to meet his family this weekend at his brother wedding. At this point, I'm committed to saving my marriage, but not attached. He has assured me through words and actions, he is done. Should I send the below message to my in-laws or not? Do I have anything to lose at this point? Do I have anything to gain? I'm not thinking clearly and need input.
Dad and Tonya. Im very sad to send you this message. I am asking for your help regarding Don and our marriage. You both know how to stay committed thru ups and downs of marriage and how to work out differences. Please help Don give our marriage another chance. This is the most important thing I've ever fought for. We have both made mistakes. I know I may be pushing water uphill. But in my heart, I love Don. I love our family. If anyone can help us you can. The bottom line is no matter what happens, I love you all. Congratulations on John's wedding. I truly wish Steve (son) and I were there to celebrate with you.
No need to send that text. Too much to loose and not much to gain. It may feel better in the short term, but it won't help your situation.
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