For his marriage? No. That one's toast. For whoever may cross his path in the future? Sure. He needs to become the best he can for one but himself, period. And certainly not her. She was involved with another man and ALL that went along with that. If he were to ever take her back, then he needs to take stock of his own self and see if the price of the soul/dignity/etc is worth it.
All for him and nothing else.
Yes, he needs to work on himself and address his issues, independent of anyone else. Again, that's why I asked him how he is different. Issues are portable if they don't get addressed and will be taken into a new relationship with whoever that person might be.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
