Better yet, just let her be totally and get on with your life. Cheating is an absolute despicable - and worst - thing a spouse can do to another. Don't roll over. Don't do anything. Stand up and move on.
Thanks Jeep74, I agree with you but if there is a way to reconcile I am willing to give it a go. Not an easy road I know and His will be done.
M 8 yrs EA 6/16 PA 09/16 Separated 10/16 WW moves out 11/16 D Filed 11/16, Hearing 05/08/17