I agree with the others, Jim. Giving or not giving her $2 grand to help her leave you won't make her love you or not. It won't save or break your marriage. Do what you feel is "the next right thing". Personally I would not spend 2 grand to fund something that benefits only her and promotes her new "freedom" from you. But that's your call. If you only act based on what you think it will do to save your marriage, it's not going to help you grow stronger as a person who is prepared for either ending. Make decisions that will make you a stronger, better man, with no thoughts of how they affect W. You are on this road alone right now. She's on a different road in her own car. She should have planned how she was going to pay for her own gas, oil changes, etc.. before she bought the car. Hang in there and keep posting. This is a great place to air out your thoughts and get perspective. We are here for you.
M-60 H-51 M-14 years BD 12/26/16 S 1/1/17
"First the pain, then the rising." Glennon Doyle Melton
