IMy first thought is to tell her no f%#@ing way, but I'm asking the cooler heads on the board for input....
Jim,
I'm a no f%#@ing way kind of guy. So yep, that's what I'd do. But, you ultimately have to decide that for yourself based on your circumstances.
That was my 180 of sorts; I went from being an easy going, laid-back husband to being tough as nails. I really needed that for myself. I'd set a boundary, and if she tried stepping over it, I'd just raise it higher. I needed to show her that I could match her and raise the stakes. But, that doesn't mean that it's the right approach in your situation. [Subliminal message: She's been playing you; it's time to put a stop to that.]
