Can't sleep. For anyone not knowing, H moved out 2.5 months ago. There is OW. I found out H is taking OW to meet his family this weekend at his brother wedding. At this point, I'm committed to saving my marriage, but not attached. He has assured me through words and actions, he is done. Should I send the below message to my in-laws or not? Do I have anything to lose at this point? Do I have anything to gain? I'm not thinking clearly and need input.
Dad and Tonya. Im very sad to send you this message. I am asking for your help regarding Don and our marriage. You both know how to stay committed thru ups and downs of marriage and how to work out differences. Please help Don give our marriage another chance. This is the most important thing I've ever fought for. We have both made mistakes. I know I may be pushing water uphill. But in my heart, I love Don. I love our family. If anyone can help us you can. The bottom line is no matter what happens, I love you all. Congratulations on John's wedding. I truly wish Steve (son) and I were there to celebrate with you.
Absolutely not. Do not involve them as it won't do anything, period, except piss off all parties involved. That is a door you don't want to open. Given the fact that he is taking the OW to meet his family speaks volumes...and says that they are into it. Another reason not to do it. 2x4 - THERE IS NO MARRIAGE TO SAVE.
Sorry, but it is what it is. Take this time to take care of yourself and your son. That is - and should be - your ONLY focus now. Good luck!
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
