Thornton,

I know that hurt deeply to overhear. I'm sorry you are going through this. Seems that the WAS does not understand that couples fall in and out of love evall the time. It's part of the marital journey. Commitment is key. When there is no commitment, there is a lack of grounding. You know?

It's like the marital moral compass is broken for so many people.

This I am certain of: no matter what, this hurts like hell! There are no words that take away the pain of betrayal, mistrust, disappointed, devastation, and the crushing feeling of our hearts and dreams being shattered.

I'm with you through this.

Both our spouses have called it quits and seemingly for good. Now what do we do?


M: 49
H: 47
Son: 8
DBomb: Dec 9, 2016
H moved out: Jan 24, 2017