More history on my sitch..

Like 2 weeks after she moved out she called me on speaker phone so OM could hear I'm sure and told me she was with OM now and that she's in love with him. She said to go forward with the divorce because it is over. That was on Thursday and I filed the non-contested divorce the following Monday at the court house.

Hearing is set for May 8th and now she is telling me she doesn't want the divorce and that I made her sign the papers.

I don't want the divorce myself but I want to buy a house and with her low credit score I will not be able to. She has amassed an enormous amount of debt and defaulted on tens of thousands of dollars in loans as well as a new car repossession.

If I do not show up for the hearing then the divorce will be put on hold until a new hearing is scheduled.


M 8 yrs
EA 6/16
PA 09/16
Separated 10/16
WW moves out 11/16
D Filed 11/16, Hearing 05/08/17