This is just my opinion and is by no means the gospel.
Your wife is cheating on you. Try to envision how she views you when she is cheating on you with another man and you are calling her back. Does she see a man of strength? Or does she see someone willing to accept any scraps she may throw your way?
Women like strong men, right? Let her think you're strong and not willing to be number 2. You can do this by going dark (and sending the message she is going to lose YOU).
I overheard my w tell my mom tonight that she doesn't love me and is leaving for good this time. I don't have control over her. But I sure as hell am not gonna let her see me panic and cry. She can leave. And one day a year from now, she will realize that she thee away the one guy that was crazy enough to put up with her. I hope and pray when that happens, that I'm a free bird and not looking back. That's my goal.
Now, it's gonna sting worse than anything I've ever felt but damn it, I'm a good man. And I've been to hell and back for this woman and forgiven her countless times. When times for tough, I stepped up. She ran.
Making these tough decisions is scary. We feel scared that standing up for ourselves will push our wives away. You know what? She's already gone. She's been Gone for quite some time. Face your fears and live your life without her.
The advice I just gave you is intended for you as much as it is for me.
Let's get through this together and give ourselves the best chance of meeting our goal.
