Wife left two days before our anniversary! Part 3

[jbroken]

Friends, I have just received a message from my MIL. I haven't opened it as yet and I cannot see all of it on preview. It starts off as:

'Hi jbroken, how are you? Wanted to ask if you can check if to see if W left her...'

The last time I spoke with her was a month ago-the very next day after my W walked out. She basically reiterated everything my W said on the BD plus called it a 'bad marriage', etc. It was a ready scripted conversation. All blame firmly in my direction. She is definitely a 'biased shoulder/protector/rescuer/enabler' and has played a key role in getting my sitch to where it is - even though she makes it sound like this is solely my W decision.

The subject matter of the message is so perplexing. I mean asking me if my W actually left something behind! She disappeared like she never existed, with everything she felt she had a right to take - down to our wedding pictures!

Also, when my parents called my W to speak to her a couple of days after she didn't answer, call back or even reply to any messages they sent.

Any advice? Should I respond? What should I write back? How should I be?