It is time I just stop everything....but then I stop to panic thinking if I stop all contact with him, he'll just continue to slide into the comfort and routine attachment to the OW....OUCH!!!! It hurts.
Anything you do will push. Nothing you can do to pull.
Like you said, its better when hes not around. Go with that thought.
Maybe comfort and routine is what he need. He might figure out its not that great.
M:46 WXW:40 T:20 M:13 D3,D8,D10 BD:11/12/16 D:12/14/16 OM confirmed 01/20/17