Thanks Ginger,
I feel I have managed my new R well. I am taking it slow as far as future plans with this new girl. We get along very well, no big R talks, she has her own stuff going on right now too, dealing with her big D that happened a year and a half ago. I spend a fair amount of time on my own, learning to be single and finding myself as an individual. Your right, jumping into a big heavy relationship would not be good right now for me. I really like this person and I feel we have a good healthy relationship where we have our own individual time yet connect a couple days a week. I don't ever want to become dependent on another person for happiness.

After the initial lump in my throat went away when I say OM's truck parked in my old driveway, I kind of just dusted my hands off and said to myself "okay I got that overwith".

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M 21 years
XW 43yo, me 41 yo
S13
BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient...
End of June - I started the D process.
D final 2/23/17
"He who forgets will be destined to remember"
Eddie Vedder