Separated In Process of Divorce (Anniversary)

[sellout]

UPDATE: So, went over to the house 2 days ago to pick up son. I normal don't go in anymore, just wait out in the driveway. This time for some reason I decided to go in. Our son was sleeping and had about 45 min to kill. Wife was in the bathroom getting ready to go somewhere and we ended up talking for a while. At first is was somewhat calm and then about 15 min into the talk, I got a text on my phone with a selfie of a female friend of mine. This girl is very pretty (as my wife is). Needless to say my wife WAS NOT HAPPY about this. "Who is that", "whats her name", "how many times have you seen her" "where does she live"...on and on. I was pretty vague and evasive. Keep in mind this is about 14 hours prior to when I first court date is scheduled for. Well, I end up leaving, taking my son to baseball practice and low and behold, my attorney calls and advises that due to some paperwork issues the first court date is going to be postponed at least 2 weeks. Upon returning to the house that night to drop off my son I decided to go in again. Wife and I ended up talking for about an hour. She admitted she was upset that I was "seeing someone else", "didnt like seeing a picture of her" so on and so forth. We talked about potentially putting divorce on hold and several other scenarios. Yesterday I had an after work happy hour with a male and she was aware of this. I was not scheduled to see my son yesterday so there would be no reason for my wife to know where I was, who i was with or what time i would be leaving/going home. At about 8:15 she texts me and says "You lied". I asked her what she meant and her response was, "longest happy hour ever I guess". She went on to accuse me of being out with that girl, accuse me of lying, hope your happy, etc... All the while she is still dating OM and open about it and telling me she loses either way. Oh well, she needs to make her mind up, cause my mind is made. I moving on with my life with or without her. I hope its with her but I have started to get some of my MOJO back and she is seeing that. Thoughts?