That is how most things go lately, nothing explodes into something. So frustrating.
LW - This is how it goes and yes it is frustrating. I spent some time yesterday going back over my piecing blogs here from 4 years ago and I was floored at how difficult it all was. I don't remember the struggle that we went through, so I guess out of sight out of mind. Patience, marathon are big deals.
Originally Posted By: LW2381
Also her Birthday is Sunday, and I bought her a SPA day, shoes, and some other stuff. I have asked her 3 times if she wanted to go out for her birthday Sat. night, and she avoids it every time. However, yesterday she mentioned her friend (the young one mentioned in previous replies) wanted to do a girls night for their birthdays. It really bothers me that she will jump to for this, but I have mentioned taking her out several times and am totally ignored. Do I just let this go, Do tell her that it bothers me? Do I just set something up for me to do Sat night, or stay home with S so she can go? Really don't know how to handle this....
Ask her if she'd like to do a birthday thing with you and S or if she'd prefer girls night. It's her birthday and let her do what she wants to do. She might chose girls night and that's ok because it's her birthday. She might really appreciate the gesture of choice.
My W slipped last night texting and it was a bit harsh. She was at her female co-worker's apartment and was letting me know she'd be late. She told me to tell the kids goodnight and give them kisses and finished with "I Love Y'all". And then got an additional text that said "Love Them Sorry".
I was actually glad she clarified because I'd probably use the other as a sign, a reason to hope, blah, blah, blah. Still stung but good gut check.
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
