Looking for a miracle.

[peacetoday]

Irish

It is hard on the kids
but I see my kids now
although I'm sure a deep scar exists for their abandoned father
they do seem well adjusted to me
even with his weak attempts to connect with our D this past year and his cowardly decline to talk to her via phone, she is ok-

she understands that people sometimes get sick and some can't recover
-he is one of those

we hold a special hope of prayer for his well being-and one day recovery
but
I dont think my XH will ever recover..for himself too much damage
too many years out there on drugs
crazy OW now wife

at one point I thought he would get better
but many MLCer will continue on that road for the rest of their lives
some will turn..not sure the percentage

I wonder what they think when they look at their old lives..many were quite successful
financially well off with nice families--nice homes ect

to their present lives..drugs, crazy partners, no blood family, kids won't speak to them, living in poverty or debt.. apartments or rentals

I think one caring parent is enough not perfect but adequate to facilitate their growth
I am grateful that my kids seem ok and we got through the crises
at this point ---it seems long gone

everyone has forgot about dad and has moved on doing their own lives
and everyone is thriving except him

hang in
more will be revealed