Im having a hard time reconciling this line of thinking with what MWD talks about in the first chapter of DR. The whole premise of the book is that it is better for everyone to stay and work through these issues rather than getting a divorce.
Working through issues and the spouse sleeping with someone are two different ballgames. Whether someone can look past the deception and all that goes with sleeping with someone else is something they need to decide for themselves...if so, then what is their line? This rolling over is, well crap, to put it nicely. Maybe what really needs to be looked at are their own selfish, maybe even needy, reasons as to why this behavior is acceptable.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
