So last night was okay, got home from work, we were pleasant with each other. Went to bed, before she goes to sleep she leaned over and said "Goodnight, I love you", and kissed me. As I was trying to tell her back "I love you" my S jumped between us (just playing) and accidentally hit her in the face. She said to him "you just hit me in the face (no anger), and laid her head down. I never even got to say ILY back. About 30 min she rolls over and says to me, "I hope you remember this night, I told you GN and ILY, and you couldn't even say it back." I told her I was sorry, that I was trying and then my S jumped on her. She was extremely angry. I kissed her goodbye this morning (she was still asleep) like a always do and told her ILY. Just venting, I have no idea how she will be today....or if we'll even speak.
That is how most things go lately, nothing explodes into something. So frustrating.
Also her Birthday is Sunday, and I bought her a SPA day, shoes, and some other stuff. I have asked her 3 times if she wanted to go out for her birthday Sat. night, and she avoids it every time. However, yesterday she mentioned her friend (the young one mentioned in previous replies) wanted to do a girls night for their birthdays. It really bothers me that she will jump to for this, but I have mentioned taking her out several times and am totally ignored. Do I just let this go, Do tell her that it bothers me? Do I just set something up for me to do Sat night, or stay home with S so she can go? Really don't know how to handle this....
-LW
Me-35, W-31 T: 12 M: 11 S5 BD: 11/2016, Wants Divorce Divorce off table 1/17 EA (11/2016)/PA (3/17)confirmed Status Unknown as of 3/29/17
