So that I am clear, I only want a stable and happy co-parenting relationship with her now.
She is bitter b/c she did not get the outcome she thought would happen. It is not your job to rescue her (point in detaching). If you are moving forward........and especially if you are interested in another woman, then leave your W alone to work out her own mess she's created.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
