Despite advise from many people, I have continued a relationship with the woman I mentioned above - things seem to be going well. I've told my W about this relationship as I want to be honest with her and let her know that I've accepted the situation and moved on.
I have accepted the situation and take responsibility for the part I have played in the break down of my marriage. Accepting my flaws has helped me massively. The hardest part however was accepting an apology I have never received from someone who's not actually sorry.
Now for my problem....
My W has lost every single one of her friends and I mean our joint friends and friends that where her own. She is completely on her own. She is still living with her Mother and blames me completely for everything wrong in her life (incl her friends turning on her). She is completely broken and it breaks my heart to see the woman I once loved and who was so strong to be so down.
So, what can I do?... What should I do?... I have reached out to her Mother, but had no response so have now reached out to her Brother who said that he would talk with her. I want to see her strong again, not just for our Son, but for herself.
She has said that I'm "dead to her" and I don't think that I'm the person to help her (is it even my place anymore?) but what do I do?
Is this the typical WAS behavior?... If so, what do I expect from her, will she be ok and what do I do from here? So that I am clear, I only want a stable and happy co-parenting relationship with her now.
As always, I appreciate all your help, support and advise.
Thanks Guys R
M - 36 / W - 32 S - 3 Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016 Moved out - 4th Sept 2016
