Thank you EastTN. That is NOT what I want.
That is exactly what she has been doing and what I have been giving her until now.

Light Bulb came on last weekend when I started pulling back. Weird thing is she even said those exact words to me. "I can see you are pulling away from me now." Made me think she was reading this board or something somewhere.

M 8 yrs
EA 6/16
PA 09/16
Separated 10/16
WW moves out 11/16
D Filed 11/16, Hearing 05/08/17