I mentioned on here that a gentleman (recent widow)showed interest. I have invited him for a coffee as friends once to take his mind off things and get out of the house a bit. No problem except he timed it for 8PM.. It is late for me but I agreed. He also chose to have it at my house knowing I had 3 more kids (friends of my kids) present for the week-end. Again, I agreed. Conversation was all about his 25 years as a scout leader. Some good stories, some, not so good. Overall, a so-so night.
Me and D16 were going to feed the birds (hiking trail). I offered him to join. He agreed. Again, it was so-so..
RED FLAGS: facebook!!!!! He sees and show up on everything I do. My friends list is hidden and he managed to track 12 of my friends. Including one from here. He does NOT know the name of this site but he does know I am part of a support group on Midlife crisis. His fb activities towards me is creeping me out. I have blocked him. Now, to the person on here, If he ask about our link or if he comments inappropriately, please,let me know.
Our friday's night out: on our way, he was very quiet and a bit nervous so I made conversation. On 3 occasions, he cut me off to show me other things and than, apologized and asked me to continue. I guess my conversation topic was not interesting. We went to a restaurant and everything was ok until he asked for a glass of water and the waitress forgot. He got loud, joking rudely and draw attention of the tables around us. I was embarrassed. Once at the cash, I got the bill.. I left a BIG tip for the waitress and thank her with a smile.
At the show: This place is a place where he used to hang out with his wife. ( I did not know ). He saw many friends of theirs. I was not introduce to any and I could feel their awkward feeling. Understandably, his wife was the subject of conversation. I tried to get in it but I was shout out so I kept quiet. In the intermission, I was left sitting alone while he mingled with more of his friends. At the end of the show, what he did not know was I KNEW ONE OF THE ACTRICE very well.At the end of the show, I had a very big kiss and hug from her with a nice warm conversation. I did not introduce him..lol
He dropped me off home and it was a cool good night.. see you Monday at work.
I have not shared much of my private life with him and yet, he infiltrated himself in it.
The fb continued until, to me, he crossed the line of intrusive.. I cut him out before he goes any further. This is where my: TOO MUCH MAN, TOO MUCH!!! came from.. The end of a love story that did not even started.. I have no interest in him. I find him boring and Overboard..
