D is with me during the week (sunday night through friday morning) and with her on the weekend. We've agreed on this, and we started a parenting plan that makes this official (but it's not until the court says it is). I'll talk to the lawyer about something interim. We'll see what happens.
As for finance, I have her on a cash allowance (paid via check that comes directly from the bank, for record keeping purposes). The only open financial liability I have related to her is her phone (data cap or whatever) and I am pushing for that to go away this month.
As for structure... I guess that's a good question. Honestly, I don't know. It just "feels" wrong. It also feels degrading. There's no real relationship at this point. I've pretty much gone dark, and she has too. I dropped D off for her this evening (more on that next post) and she pretty much didn't even acknowledge I was there. I've had more positive interactions with sharks at the aquarium. What's the upside to staying married?
As far as physical/emotional divorce... I'll have to think about that point.
